Cleaning Up
Natalie remembers very well the day she came to the hospital and met her baby sister:
Mom: Natalie, it's time to go pick up your toys please
Natie: But mom - I don't wanna pick up my toys right now
Mom: I'm sorry, but you need to
Natie: why, Mom?
Mom: Because you're a big girl, and big girls pick up their toys
Natie: Ohhhhh. But Mom, we need to hurry and go to the hospital so they can put me back in your belly button because I don't wanna be a big girl right now. I wanna be a baby like Maejae.
Mom: Hahaha. Ummmm, it doesn't work that way sweetie.
Natie: Oh. Well, I'm only 3 years old. Can you help me pick up my toys
Mom: Sure . . . (still laughing)
The Toys
Last weekend we decided to take a trip to San Diego to celebrate Nathan's completion of his 2nd year of medical school and board exams (post to come). The drive is about 5 hours, so we equipped the girls with books, toys, and their teddy bears. One of the toys was a steering wheel that makes sounds, lights up, and has a horn. It is apparently (according to Natalie) "the favorite, best, toy." During the drive, Natalie was playing with her little laptop, and Maejae started to fuss. I reached behind me and gave her the steering wheel. Which resulted in the following:
Natalie: No Mommy, I want the steering car toy
Mom: Sorry Natalie, but Maejae had it first
Natalie: No, I did
Mom: No - you were playing with your computer. Let Maejae have a turn, and then you can have a turn
Natalie: But I want it right now
Mom: Sorry, but you need to share with your sister
Natalie: But Mom, I don't want a sister. I want to take her back to the hospital. Then I can have my car toy.
* At this point, Nathan was busting up laughing. I tried to hold it in, and quickly said,
"I'm sorry honey, it doesn't work that way. Maejae is our sister forever."
To which Natalie replied: Ugh, MOM! Fine. (Taking the toy from Mae) It's my turn Maejae.
Maejae: Ahhhhhhhhhhhhh
Mom: Natalie, give that back to her. She gets 2 more minutes, and then you can have a turn.
Natalie: Mom . . . Ugh! Just . . . Ugh (giving the toy back to Maejae)!
Mommy and Daddy: Hahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!
Learning, and Remembering
When we got home from San Diego, we had an appointment. While we were in the waiting room, I let Maejae crawl around and play with the kid toys they had set out. Natalie decided to join her. But, Natalie and Maejae started playing the head-butting game (they like to hit their heads together, which makes them both laugh pretty hard). A lady was laughing at the girls and decided to talk to Natalie:
Lady: You're silly
Natalie: Yeah, I am
Lady: How old are you
Natalie: 3
Lady: Is that your sister?
Natalie: Yeah - her name is Maejae. She's 1 years old. She's my sister FOREVER! We just . . . we just love her.
I was so proud that she remembered our conversation in the car, and still loves her sissy, even though she now has to share her toys! Let the learning continue . . .
Aww! Isn't it so fun! Kids are the BEST! (Sometimes that is...)
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